Wherever life takes you, embrace the journey

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Three days from now is Easter Sunday. Many will be traveling to see parents, relatives or other extended family. The kids find hidden eggs loaded with candy while the adults feast on ham (or another chosen meat delicacy).
Perhaps the gatherings have already taken place. Finding days and times to schedule the get-togethers certainly can be a challenge. Whatever one’s individual situation, it’s an opportunity to visit family. For many, the journey isn’t that far and they see extended family quite frequently, meeting for birthdays, anniversaries, or…just to meet. It’s the often dreaded, rarely duplicated “surprise” drop-in. There really doesn’t need to be a big occasion. For others, they may not have the tradition of meeting as much as the patriarchs prefer, so the gatherings are reserved for major holidays, weddings, and, sadly, funerals.
Earlier this month, April 10, was Palm Sunday. I got a text message from my uncle in Michigan shortly before 9:30 p.m. He sent a few family photos from his granddaughter’s confirmation. All seven grandchildren were there. It was a proud moment, no question. Also, it was a reminder that for one day, all of the planning, preparation worked out. His granddaughter was part of a confirmation class at a Lutheran church in Michigan, and it was an opportunity to mark that moment in time with a photograph. The journey, which began years before, was continuing but this was a great time to pause, to document where that trip is at now.
For all the busyness of life, getting to an appointment on time, the non-stop interruptions for many factors that are beyond one’s control, whatever the scenario, reflecting on the simple moments on the journey may be the best part.

Another analogy is this: Driving along a familiar road, there are often landmarks or milemarkers along the way. Seeing a notable landmark or passing by a certain milemarker is not the end result of the journey. However, it’s often a reminder of a past memory, or possibly a previous family accomplishment or celebration. Everyone has a unique story to tell. The memories may, no matter the age they occurred, be vibrantly clear and happy, back to a more innocent time before many things became enveloped with the drama, stress and uncertainty of life. Not everyone’s story has a positive ending, or a cheery outcome. It’s part of the story, though. I’m probably not going out too far of a limb by suggesting that the journey can be a complicated one. Don’t ignore the messy details or problematic history. Encouraging more moments of stopping to reflect on the journey may often prove beneficial and helpful.
There are journeys in life: many are short, others are longer. The point is to find time to embrace the journey. Don’t focus so much on the end result, rather, try to enjoy the trip which often can be a wild and crazy ride.
-Thanks for reading!
Daniel Winningham is the managing editor of the Republic-Monitor. He can be reached at 573-547-4567, ext. 227 or email editor@perryvillenews.com.